I'm surprised they gave you the option to upgrade. As I understood it, at least in my area, what the dealer gets, they get; there was no option to change anything. Unless maybe the dealer ordered them separately and is charging you for that as a dealer option.
If you build one on the Toyota website, the wheels are available as a dealer instal upgrade.
I managed to get to know a guy by accident who is the one ordering or controlling their inventory. He can change stuff while the vehicle is enroute to the port. I don't deal with the outside guys at the dealership, they are a waste of time, and I know they also have to work, but most of the time when you ask them something, it's either they are not sure, they don't know, or they don't give a F. So I go directly to the internet sales guy via email. I don't even go to the dealership. I only went there last weekend to show him my Tacoma that I'm trading in.
