Speaking as collision estimator for a Toyota dealer body shop, cost to paint a 4 runner is easily $10k+ more so if you want door jams, engine bay also done. in my opinion a wrap is much easier option and more cost effective.
matching the color is not a hard thing to do when you have the right...
Find pig tails is awesome for this. The staff are very helpful if you cant find it on their site. I use this site often at work. They have a number to text photos too and they can help match that plug